The Sun is up and the morning is actually almost over. I have to tell you I am hoping this week has better results than last week. I do struggle with keeping my anger in check on occasion and last week was a test of how much control I have now. I came really close to loosing it. I managed to succeed but man I tell ya. I have a lot more practice to do. I was not happy with the results. I want to be free to choose what I get angry over. Don't get me wrong I believe being angry is a good thing as long as we use the fuel it gives the right way. I tend to use it in a very destructive manner when I get to that point.
I have been through a lot of training with different solutions and views on this problem. I also have a lot of triggers that can set me off. One method that works for me is to just pause mentally and physically and to roll through the scenario and look at what the outcome will be. In my training with RMT I have been taught to look at the the outcome and the ecology. Is it good for me. Is it good for others. Is it sustainable. If the answer is not yes to those three questions. Then perhaps it is not the right decision. I apply this to my anger. How could you apply that process to your problem? Is it relevant? This is what I help people with finding the right strategy or tool to enhance their life.It is now 2:25 on Sunday and I had a great conversation with another coach from across the pond on a similar subject. I am amazed at how brilliant we are as people. She is using a system that is tens of thousands of years old to handle relationship problems. I was amazed how she is currently adapting it to her work and I am looking forward to the finished project.
As for my business side of things I am testing OfficeClip. It seems to be a truly flexible software that will allow me to handle my business on a more mobile platform. It contains a robust CRM and project management platform which I am in need of. I am still reviewing a lot of the functionality. Look for my full review in the upcoming weeks.
"Finish every day and be done with it.
You have done what you could. Some blunders and absurdities no doubt have crept
in; forget them as soon as you can. Tomorrow is a new day; begin it well and
serenely and with too high a spirit to be cumbered with your old nonsense. This
day is all that is good and fair. It is too dear, with its hopes and
invitations, to waste a moment on yesterdays." - Ralph Waldo Emerson
Thats all for now Webbers.
Until next time. This is Tim Thomas reminding you to live life by your design.
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