Right to it

Morning Webbers,

Hope you are well. It is Monday and I am getting right to it. I have a lot on my agenda to do today. I have to get it all done. I have worked out this morning and eaten breakfast now I am drinking my coffee and working on my social media.

This weekend proved to be an interesting journey for me. I have been working on more of the mind science aspect of things. I am trying to gain a deeper understanding of my own emotions. One of them is mental choice and how to control the flow of that emotion. To be able to feel it at 100 percent and channel it as a positive. I understand physiology comes into play. Breath does as well. Along with our mental state. One piece in particular is the emotional charge that comes off of it that interests me. I fell somehow that first moment the surge that comes from that is where you have to decide how you are going to channel that energy. Sometime it is like being hit by a huge wave just crashing down on you that you missed the timing and now it is to late and you are just reacting (thrashing) in the aftermath that is more powerful than the initial surge. More research on this to follow....

My daughter made me so proud yesterday. She had a purse full of coins and I asked her to borrow a quarter and she gladly gave it. Proud moment for me that 4 years old she is willing to help with nothing in return. I had to reward for her kindness so we went and fetched her a present.

Well my coffee is gone and it is time to get at it. Enjoy your day Webbers. If you know anyone in need of a coach please do me a favor and pass my name along. Remember it is your life and live it by your design.

T

Win or Loose

"Winning is great, sure, but if you are really going to do something in life, the secret is learning how to lose. Nobody goes undefeated all the time. If you can pick up after a crushing defeat, and go on to win again, you are going to be a champion someday." - Wilma Rudolph


Hi Webbers,

How are you? I am crazy busy as usual. I am living a blessed and amazing life. I don't have enough time in a day to finish most things. They roll over to the next day get pushed aside and I will get to it later.

Part of my day today was studying about a Win - Win attitude as taught by Franklin Covey. Now here it is towards the end of the day and life throws the lesson right up at me.

I work in a business where I take a lot of losses throughout the day sometimes even the wins seem like a loss. There was a time when this bothered me and stressed me to the max. I enjoy winning and realize I cannot be the #1 choice for my clients all the time. These are business decisions of course and sometimes the client doesn't want the best. They will settle on price. I always wish them luck and hope it works out for them and that I am there should they reconsider.

Tonight after closing one computer and moving to the next then realizing I need to take a shower from an earlier hair cut I received today. My daughter asked for a race. I had to oblige. Now I am that dad that believes in raising my child up and letting her win all the time. This was the first time I actually with intent beat her. To my amazement she said I cheated. I asked her how I cheated. I was shocked and needed to understand. I have seen this pattern when her and her mom play. She stated I was faster. I asked - how does that make me a cheater? She said because I run faster. I had to giggle to myself and explain to her that sometimes as much as we want to win we can only do our best.. If we push our self to our limit and not held anything back. We may have lost the race but we have won our personal challenge and that was not to give up.

My training has taught me to never give up. I hope to transfer that to my daughter. I have been told my whole life that I cannot do a lot of things. I have always been determined to do them. The best part of the lesson was after understanding and explaining this to my daughter she wanted a rematch.

She is a very fast runner and I will have to oblige. I bet she wins "wink, wink"

Webbers have a great night and remember to live you life by design. If you are stuck or in a challenge situation reach out and lets see what we can do to get you moving forward.

T

www.2-help-u.com

Working on it

Hi Webbers,

Today I have started a new journey. I am working to get my coaching practice to double in size. I am also pushing to change some things in my life. I am struggle with a few health problems and I am determined to beat it. If I can be of service to you please do not hesitate to call on me. 

I have been working hard on changing and adding many things to my business and soon will be looking to polish it up. Right now I am just stacking as much information as I can. In regards to my health I have just weighed in at 221 lbs and in 3 months I want to weigh in a 210. My goal is to be 190 lbs or less by 2015. I can do this and will do this. I am behind schedule at the moment due to different factors. One being my lack of motivation. 

I am using binaural beats to change this. I am reprogramming my conscious mind and to create the change I want to be. I have some projects to finish and am looking to move way ahead of where I am currently. Stay tuned for the journey/

Take care webbers and visit www.2-help-u.com

T